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Ash  Meaney's avatar

Love this Jamie

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Jamie Phear's avatar

Thank you! Sending love to you and Sibs 🫶🏼 x

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Alexia's avatar

Loved this Jamie, thank you for your beautiful writing.

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Jamie Phear's avatar

Thank you, Alexia!

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Tola Doll Fisher's avatar

Yeah yeah yeah!! This all struck a chord with me. Many chords in fact! I too, have worried about doing the “right thing” and been confused when something I thought was God’s will and prayed and fasted for - did not happen. I still find it confusing. But I’m doing the whole Prov 3:5-6 thing and trusting God not the situation. Trying to anyway 🙃🙏🏾

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Jamie Phear's avatar

Totally relate! I’ve prayed things through and discerned moving forward, believing I was doing God’s will and then the door closed or it didn’t work out and I was left thinking huh?! Did I get that wrong? My spiritual director shared a helpful analogy — four vicars apply for the same church role, all discern God’s will, all believe it’s the right call, but only one gets the job. Does it mean the other three all discerned wrong? No, it’s just that the outcome is up to God. And for those three who it didn’t work out for, God was doing something in them in the process, preparing them for the next thing. That example has been so helpful for me in my journey with discernment.

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Tola Doll Fisher's avatar

Interesting! Thanks for sharing this Jamie!

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